Car seats are always combined with going out, and we sometimes can't understand whether the child is uncomfortable going out or sitting in the car seat. Therefore, before going out, check whether the child's physical and mental state is comfortable: is the thickness of the clothes appropriate? Are you tired and hungry? Are the diapers dry? can help us grasp the variables. Also, notice if we have pleasant interactions with our children before going out? Or have you neglected your child for a long time because you are too busy going out? It is also an important part of reducing the "painful" connection. From boarding to traveling to getting off, there are a few ways to reduce the "painful" connection.
When getting in the car, confirm whether the safety company banner design seat is suitable for the child's preferences and physical condition: some children can recognize colors and patterns at a very young age, some children prefer the angle of lying, some children prefer to stand up straight, and some children are very afraid of heat … Talking to the child while helping the child adjust the safety seat, the message to the child is: "Mom and Dad know that you may not be very comfortable on it, so we are trying to find a way to make you more comfortable." Accompanied by parents during the trip: whether an adult accompanies the child to sit in the back seat, or adults sit in the front seat, but playing songs or stories that the child likes, or chatting with the child, can make the child feel that he has no She was cut off from her parents because she was tied up.
Respond when the child is uncomfortable. It is best to stop and check. If you cannot stop, you should also use words to comfort the child, talk to the child, let him know that you know he is uncomfortable, and don't ignore it. When getting out of the car, help the child to release the safety seat, while predicting the next action or the people and things that will be encountered. Paying attention along the way is not only to take care of the children, but also to take care of ourselves, let us follow the children's eyes and calm down. Add the link between car seat and "happy" After "reducing" pain, of course, we have to study how to "increase" happiness. For example, take a child to get to know his car seat first—just like when we take a child to a new friend or to a new environment. Introduce its color, function, and purpose; take the car seat home and turn it on for ventilation, which can disperse the smell of new volatile substances, and also give children the opportunity to see the car seat often and build a sense of familiarity with it. Know more about his exclusive seat. It's also a good idea for an older child to pick out his car seat together. If your child doesn't like riding in a car seat, you can deliberately make riding in a car seat associated with a good outcome, like going to a place your child likes to play.